Amanda Kloots: Grief, Surrender, and the Strength in Being Held
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Amanda Kloots does so many things it is hard to name them all. She is a best selling author, a fitness entrepreneur, a television host, and the founder of Proper, a supplement brand built to help you feel good. She is also a single mom and a widow who has walked through public grief and the unimaginable. This week I sit down with Amanda and we start where I always love to start, with her birth chart, and it explains everything.
Amanda has Virgo rising, a Sun in Pisces at the very final degrees, a Moon in Capricorn, and a Gemini Midheaven that is doing twenty things at once. As we read it together, you watch her whole life click into place. Her Sun sits in the seventh house, which makes partnership the center of her soul path, and her Pisces energy is here to teach her trust, surrender, and how to let go of control. We talk about the armor she came in wearing, her north node in Cancer asking her to finally be held, and the difference between holding everyone else and letting yourself be held.
This is a powerful conversation about self worth, abundance, and grief as medicine. We get into her Jupiter in Scorpio and why her voice is meant to go to the places most people avoid, her Chiron return and the healing of self worth that is coming, and why a Gemini Midheaven means she should keep doing all the things because each one feeds the next. If you have ever tried to control your way to safety, this one is your permission slip to surrender.
Topics Covered
- Reading Amanda's birth chart live, and why it explains everything
- Virgo rising, poise, and the healer energy she carries into every room
- Sun in Pisces in the seventh house and partnership as her soul's curriculum
- The final degrees of Pisces and completing lifetimes of lessons through relationships
- Trust, surrender, and releasing the need to control the outcome
- Moon in Capricorn, the south node, and the armor she came in wearing
- The north node in Cancer and learning to let herself be held and to cry
- The eleventh house, the widow community she holds, and letting them hold her back
- Why Pisces needs time to simply be, and rest as a birthright
- Gemini Midheaven and why doing many things at once is her design
- Creativity as the antidote to depression, and healing through movement and writing
- Jupiter in Scorpio in the third house, her voice, and the grief podcast coming soon
- Mars, Saturn, and Pluto in Libra, self worth in partnership, and the link to abundance
- The Chiron return in Taurus and healing the wound around self worth and charging your value
Timestamps
- [00:02] Meeting Amanda and starting with her chart
- [01:40] The fifth house, Venus, and the joy of creating
- [03:07] Sun in Pisces in the seventh house and partnership as her soul path
- [10:55] Trust, surrender, and letting go of control
- [11:19] Moon in Capricorn, the south node, and the armor she came in with
- [14:11] The north node in Cancer, being held, and letting the tears come
- [15:29] Community, the widows she holds, and who holds her
- [22:28] Why Pisces needs time to just be
- [22:47] Gemini Midheaven and doing many things at once
- [25:38] Creativity as the antidote to depression, movement and writing
- [27:00] Jupiter in Scorpio in the third house, her voice, and a grief podcast
- [40:34] Libra in the second house, self worth in partnership, and abundance
- [46:50] The Chiron return in Taurus and healing self worth
Resources
- Follow Amanda Kloots on Instagram
- Visit Amanda's website
- Follow Spirit Daughter on Instagram
- Visit the Spirit Daughter Website
- Get my book Spirit Daughter
- Get your Free Natal Chart
- Book a Natal Chart Reading
- Try the Moment App for free


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