EPISODE #67

Sarah Nicole Landry: You Do Not Get Confident First

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You know her as The Birds Papaya. Four kids, three and a half million people, the Sports Illustrated runway walk in Miami that went viral while she was postpartum. What almost nobody knows is the thing she says out loud in this reading. She has never once felt confident before doing any of it.

Sarah Nicole Landry has a Capricorn sun sitting in the eleventh house, which is why her sun sign never quite made sense to her. Capricorn builds things that last. The eleventh house is community. So her core essence was never about building her own life, it was about building something lasting for everyone else, and Jupiter sits right there with it. Then there is a moon in Aries in the first house, a Pisces rising with Mars sitting on it, and the placement that stopped her mid sentence: Chiron in Gemini in the third house, the voice wound.

We get into the hundred pounds she lost and the confidence that was not waiting on the other side, the four hours a day she spends in her DMs and why she calls that her life's work, the two marriages and two divorces and the shame she carried about a life that refused to be linear, and the path her chart is actually walking her toward. Out of the burning buildings of a south node in Scorpio and into a quiet meadow in Taurus in the second house, where worth and abundance live in the same room. Pull up your chart at chart.spiritdaughter.com and find your Chiron before you listen.

Topics Covered

Where the name The Birds Papaya came from, and the eighteen years behind it
Losing a hundred pounds and finding out confidence was not waiting at the end
Why confidence follows the action instead of arriving before it
The narratives women are sold about aging, and why her forties feel better than any decade before
The regret of sidelining yourself in a postpartum body, and why you do not get that back
Capricorn sun in the eleventh house, and why her sun sign never fit until we placed it
Why the house a planet sits in changes everything about how it shows up
Moon in Aries in the first house: emotions embedded in identity, and the willingness to defend them
Jupiter in Capricorn in the eleventh house: building something that outlasts you
Social media and podcasts as the modern eleventh house
The throat chakra reading, and learning that how she feels matters
Letting her kids see her struggle, and modeling self advocacy for them
Pisces rising with Mars on the ascendant in the twelfth house: fighting for people who cannot fight for themselves
Four hours a day in her DMs, and what she actually counts as success
Chiron in Gemini in the third house: the voice wound you came in with
Why the wound becomes the medicine once you heal it
Sagittarius at the midheaven: teaching people freedom inside their own bodies
Mercury and Uranus in the ninth house, and the book sitting in her chart
The eighth house: shame, intimacy, transformation, and everything nobody wants to talk about
South node, Saturn, and Pluto in Scorpio: committed to the depths, and the risk of getting stuck there
Why some people get attached to transformation itself
Two marriages, two divorces, and the shame of a life that is not linear
North node in Taurus in the second house: the walk out of the fire and into the meadow
Why self worth and abundance live in the same house
What happens when peace costs you other people's approval
Being a thought leader, and the ten years it takes for people to catch up

Timestamps

00:02 Welcome, and the name everyone knows her by
01:34 Gemma Birdie and Maya Papaya: where The Birds Papaya came from
03:59 Four kids, a hundred pounds lost, and the confidence that never showed up
05:22 Why confidence follows the action instead of arriving before it
06:18 The narratives women are sold about aging and the body
07:34 The pool, the cover up, and what we miss while we wait
09:29 The regret of sidelining yourself at 25
10:26 Why her forties feel better than any decade before them
11:26 The big three: Capricorn sun, Aries moon, Pisces rising
11:44 Capricorn sun in the eleventh house, and why her sun sign never fit
14:45 Shame, stretch marks, and the moment the grip loosened
16:28 Social media as the modern eleventh house, and Jupiter in Capricorn there
17:56 What if this all goes away, and what a Capricorn eleventh house answers
19:58 The throat chakra reading, and learning that how she feels matters
21:16 Letting her kids see her struggle
22:49 Modeling self advocacy for your children
24:42 Pisces rising with Mars on the ascendant: fighting for the people who cannot
26:52 Four hours a day in her DMs, and what she counts as success
28:41 Chiron in Gemini in the third house: the voice wound that becomes the medicine
33:59 Something good can come from anything
35:54 The through line: heal the voice, then use it to shift the collective
36:46 There is a lot I have not said yet
38:09 Mercury and Uranus in the ninth house, and the book in her chart
42:12 Two marriages, two divorces, and the shame of a life that is not linear
42:56 North node in Taurus in the second house: the walk toward the meadow
45:15 Why self worth and abundance live in the same house
50:17 What to be cautious of: getting attached to transformation
51:42 When peace costs you other people's approval
55:01 You are not part of the community, you are the community
57:05 Where to find Sarah